Tuesday, June 13, 2006
On friends, people, and funties...Seems the hot topic nowadays among the
funty guys is how the distance between us and the
funty grls seemed to be widening. Talk about funtypeople dispanding, funtypeople being something only a thing of the past, I can't help but stare at the truth myself. Time is a great obstacle, something people sorely lacking, something people seriously can't find a way past it. Time, or rather lack of it, is the answer to many absentees. Time is the divine power pulling us apart. Cos people are humans after all, they need contact, physical and emotional contact, in other words spend time together. B And when time becomes such a rare commodity, who gladly gives it to the funties?Indeed in such a collation, every single one of us are inter-linked. The survival of this collation stands on the fact that these links are still existent and very much strong. However that's really not the case. Sad to say, many of these are weakening. People who were our everyday life have difficulty even maintaining some kind of conversation. Others are simply non-existent. Forever friends is such a widely used term that in letters, cards and gifts they appear so conveniently. Yet pragmatism tells u that besides the effects of Time, there are a thousand and one other things that change friendship. People say, friends are who they are because of what they have gone through. But who dare say their friendship have been really tested, by something so great that you have actually got to stop and ponder over it? Who dare say their friendship has survived many a beating, withstood difficulties and complications, emotional disturbance and sleepness nights? Exchange of bitter words? Subtle resentment? I dare say not.
